Question: How do you stop being awkward and weird?

[Dr_Liszt]

I need to learn how to do that.

Suggestions??

GO!

[BruceSmith78]

Drugs. Drugs and also alcohol.

That, or just avoid contact with people.

[Cassius Clay]

It's just one of those self-fulfilling things that's magnified by how much you already believe it as you try to compensate for it.

[BruceSmith78]

^ has never had to deal with being awkward and weird

[Derived Absurdity]

Embrace it and fuck the haterz, that's my suggestion

[Cassius Clay]

^ has never had to deal with being awkward and weird

Everybody's fucking weird.

[OpiateOfTheMasses]

Confidence and learning to not really care what most people think about you (which in turn will give you confidence). It's a virtuous circle.

[Whitey]

I need to learn how to do that.

No you don't.

[Blade Azaezel]

I need to learn how to do that.

Suggestions??

GO!

You stop asking how not to be awkward and weird

Generally drawing attention to your awkward weirdness doesn't help.

[Unvoiced_Apollo]

I need to learn how to do that.

Suggestions??

GO!

You don't. You find people that are just as awkward and weird as you. If you're having trouble, you're not trying. Try Craig's list.

It's worked for me (sans Craig's list).

That, and joining a bunch of Meetup.com groups (do not confuse it w/ Meetme) to learn how to mimic the normals. But deep down, you're always going to be weird and awkward.

[aels]

I am not remotely equipped to answer this question bc I am very awkward and weird and everyone tells me so.

[aels]

But also, there will be people who are like 'You are awkward and weird but I like you', which also happens to me. Also don't try Craigslist, you will be murdered probably.

[Unvoiced_Apollo]

I should add a caveat that the Craig'a List suggestion was a joke.

For the love of a god you don't believe in, listen to Aels and don't try Craig's list.

[Unvoiced_Apollo]

Also, if that warning was too late, I just have one thing to say...

Sorry Whitey.

[Whitey]

[Unvoiced_Apollo]

I'm weird & awkward & apologizing ahead of time.

[Dr_Liszt]

But also, there will be people who are like 'You are awkward and weird but I like you', which also happens to me. Also don't try Craigslist, you will be murdered probably.

Yeah... but I don't care about the people who like me, is mostly the people who are like serious and important who I sometimes feel guilty for weirding them out.

[Unvoiced_Apollo]

But also, there will be people who are like 'You are awkward and weird but I like you', which also happens to me. Also don't try Craigslist, you will be murdered probably.

Yeah... but I don't care about the people who like me, is mostly the people who are like serious and important who I sometimes feel guilty for weirding them out.

Don't feel guilty. Own your shit. The ones truly important to you will be the ones that won't care about you weirding them out.

[Monk]

Yeah, your best bet is to find other people with similar weirdness/awkwardness as you, or just people you feel very comfortable around. Otherwise, what I tend to try is to relax (as best as I can) and think very carefully about whether or not I should say something when I'm around people I don't necessarily feel comfortable with.